Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Blogitude of Gratidue

I know Blogitude doesn't really rhyme with "attitude," but I'm writing for the first time in probably a year so y'all should just be happy that I'm ending the silence. And naturally the person to spur me back into blogging is dear sweet L. Lets start with two pictures.

So on Monday I defended my thesis, and Tuesday I handed in and presented my last seminar paper. The work that went in to them each required dozens of hours and loads of late nights. But that is all that I had to focus on. Do you know why? It's because L literally held EVERYTHING down around the home, and continued working her full time job so that I could just focus on getting through the rest of these requirements. I can't even list off everything, but over the last week (and some of these are throughout the semester in general) she: 
-cleaned the entire house, top to bottom including bleaching the kitchen floor-
-she cooked all meals and did all the dishes after
-made cookies for my students for the last class activity
-took care of E almost exclusively through thick and thin, giggles and screams
-came home from work at 12 each day so that I could work on my paper's, while in the middle of training, and just dealt with the stress of things that she needed to get done in a tiny time window without complaining or making me feel guilty about it
-made me this super thoughtful conglomorate of "good luck" phrases in different languages the morning of my thesis defense just as an added step of showing her support and being incredibly thoughtful
-and in continuing that train of thoughtfulness, got me this SUPER legit parker BYU pen. While I was on my mission, these parker pens were the envy of all missionaries not willing to fork out for one. And she got me one so that as I go on to my PhD and become a professor, I would have a professional pen from my alma mater

Sometimes other grad students ask how on Earth you can be married at this stage or age, let alone have kids. Well if it weren't for Lauren and E keeping me sane and supporting me so that I can get through school, I have NO IDEA how I would manage. So really the question isn't how I do it, it's how they do it with out being married to the most amazing, supportive, and selfless person ever. Thank you so much L, I love love you!

Sunday, April 20, 2014


Easter was so fun this year.
All E's first holidays are the best
 He had his first egg hunt with cousins on Saturday
If you think he looks huge in this picture-
well he is
 I always told myself before kids 
that when I had kids they would only get ONE thing for holidays
especially when they are young
well- I am THAT parent
E got a ball (his favorite), two books, weird yogurt puff thingies and bath toys
yeah well I he is only getting 2 gifts for his birthday- probably... maybe
 The Easter bunny was good to Trent too
 I got a Virginia Woolf book
and a coupon for a date
Do yourself a favor and DON'T blow this picture up full screen
 I put E in the cutest Janie and Jack romper
T- it's a romper, not a dress
E looked darling 
Thank goodness for our neighbor
 E was so hungry and cranky before he came around

His cheesy/ excited face

We went to stake conference for Easter
let me tell you, stake conference with an almost 1 year old is rough
especially during nap time
We made it home and were able to spend the afternoon with great friends.

We watched the video on Christ and reflected on what Easter truly is about
it was a great day
and lots of exciting things are happening this week
I'll update once I have pictures:)

Monday, April 14, 2014

Early Morning Workouts

So E's sleeping schedule has been
less than awesome
WAY less than awesome
more like AWFUL

So I usually work out when he goes to sleep at 7-7:30pm 
welp- he figured me out 
and has decided to go to sleep at 7
 and wake up screaming 50 minute- an hour later

adios night workouts

I need to figure out how to get up at 6am, run, shower and get ready by 7:45am to get to work.

I am the Queen of Excuses when it comes to waking up early

So let me hear it people- 
I need all of your advice on getting up early
and let's just keep it at that
no sleep training advice for E
because no mom REALLY wants unsolicited advice
I'll say what they are all thinking:)

Friday, April 11, 2014


As most of you have probably already seen 
our family has finally added some red to our wardrobe
Don't worry- it will never be THAT red.

Trent has accepted OSU's offer 
and will be earning his PhD in Art History from their amazing faculty. 
We are in the middle of searching for housing and will be flying out in a few weeks to decide.

In the meantime-
I will end my job at BYU's Rollins Center for Entrepreneurship & Technology in May. 
It is a bittersweet feeling
I am so excited to stay at home with E 
but also will miss all the amazing people I have met 
and the incredible opportunities I have been given the last few years.

I will also start a job at the end of May working for a contact I met while at the Entrepreneurship Center.
I will get to work from home on some amazing projects that I am excited about.

T defends his thesis in 10 days and graduates in 14.
I am SO proud of him-
you guys
 I can never even begin to explain how much he has helped our family
He has been working, writing a thesis, taking classes
 ALL while watching E the majority of the week.

He will defend
take a breather and then start the formatting part of the thesis stuff
which I obviously don't understand fully
then will be a TA and research assistant for professors at BYU and Harvard
yeah- THAT Harvard
the Harvard guy had been searching high and low for an amazing writer 
read some of T's stuff
and obviously fell over in his chair and hired him

Oh and we move in with my in laws in June
hello AC during the summer

So I think I have covered everything

Any suggestions on
housing in Columbus
 things to do in Columbus
 tips on moving across country
 buying a second car
 how to transition to staying at home full time from a full time job
or how to really accept change and not freak out

let me know...